What maybe ok for women, to a certain degree, may not be what is expected by a husband, spouse, and or friends and or relatives', and everyone has their own opinion on matters regarding other issues of house cleaning maintenance and issue regarding such topics', and what one may find in another house, may be ok as an individual visit, but one may not live in that way, because one chooses not too, or has preference to live another kind of way at ones own individual home.

It is by choice, and one chooses to host manners when one is in visiting.